Keywords: advice for victims of bullying , bullying , seeking approval , kissing butt , know your worth , respect yourself , seeking validation , self-respect
So, stop begging for validation from people who don’t deserve the time of day from you. Instead, ask yourself these questions.
https://authorcheriewhite.com/2025/01/30/seeking-approval
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At first, it’s really hard to comprehend the notion that we could build a relationship with ourselves then comes the dilemma that it’s such a cliche or cringe-y idea, and finally you are hit with the realisation that you cannot have fulfilling relationships nor a joyful & peaceful life if you don’t acknowledge and accept yourself fully.
https://new-lune.com/2024/07/13/how-to-develop-a-relationship-with-yourself
For example, I was living by myself, so I had pretty simple home that only made sense to me. However in recent weeks, I moved in with my partner. So we are in transitioning period of making choices together about everything that we co-own.
https://essentialifenow.wordpress.com/2023/05/24/1st-post-welcome-and-why-essentialism
I have a gentle regard for people who are gently wacked. Gentle wackos amuse me, frustrate me. Anybody with a tinfoil hat will make me smile. People who think the Antarctic doesn’t exist, it’s a wall of ice maintained by NASA scientists. The guy trying to get 500,000 people to invade Area 51 (‘They can’t kill all of us!’) to locate the Roswell Alien. Loopy is good, though if you’re a cean eater make sure you don’t end up in hospital with vitamin, mineral, and nutrient deficiencies. It happens.
I know a lot of vegans, and I rather like them, but they’re the ones who don’t proselytise and deliver sanctimonious lectures.
Less good are the real fucking weirdo wackjobs. PETA springs to mind. An organisation that sanctions violence aginst humans, reckons a dairy farmer’s children ‘deserve to get cancer,’ who firebomb the houses of people involved in animal research. Humans…
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Anxiety, Goals, Happiness, Honesty
Human desperation, Shoveling snow
There are statistics about what Americans do with their time and money and that would seem to be a good proxy for what they find meaningful; and yet a web search didn’t give me what people found meaningful. What is meaningful to you, to me? I sleep the usual amount, and eat the usual amount and yes I find those activities meaningful, but they are driven by animal needs and are not those events that we value most. Or do we? I recently bought a small bottle of Grand Marnier liqueur and discovered that I really like sipping a tiny amount several times a day and letting it just slowly drift back and forth over my tongue. I didn’t seek out this experience, it was just a recommendation by a friend that I might like it, and I do. A single sip of this fluid brings a real pleasure, but…
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What keeps us busy does not necessarily keep us moving.
In today’s modern world, every other person is so called “busy”. The big question is “Busy doing what?”
When the technology is rapidly growing to make life easier for everyone, what is occupying our time?
In ancient history, when a simple meal had to be hunted from the sources, people had enough time to enjoy it. Now when we get fed at our tables, few people have time to properly chew on it.
So where are we spending our precious time?
Different online statistics say that on an average a person spends one third of their lifetime in sleeping. So we are left with two thirds of our waking time to utilize in doing things we love or are required to do.
But we have so much to achieve! Need to learn to walk, to pass elementary, to attend high…
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family , focus , home , life , meaning , musing , personal manifesto , progress
It’s cliche but the phrase “if you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything” comes to mind. Having a personal code of conduct, goals, standards gives you guidance when you feel lost in the pace of the modern world we inhabit. This world doesn’t make a lot of sense to an ever growing sector of people and having clear parameters for yourself will help you navigate the right path through it.
Walk through the forest near my home. It’s fenced off to protect it from us humans… 😉
What should my manifesto look like?
Ultimately how you do this is up to you! It’s your manifesto.
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After 18 months of researching, exploring and trying new things I have made a few discoveries I’d like to share:
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